Saturday, February 26, 2011
Conflict: To party or not to party
There comes a time when you have to ask yourself is it worth it? Since I turned 21 I've been hitting up the bars heavy but now I'm starting to contemplate whether I'm going to hard in the MUTHAFUCKIN PAINT NICCA (waka voice). A while back I was looking at my credit card statement and 85 percent of the charges were from liquor stores & bars. I'm torn because on one hand I'm only 22 I aint got a gotta girl, im a fly ass dude, and there so many bad drunk bitches Ive yet to hit on, but on the other hand i don't want to be "that" dude that's in the bar all the time. With that said I feel the thing that leads to my conflicted ego is that I don't want to be the dude that's 30 or 40 still trying to be young at the bars looking like a clown. So I figure I'm getting it out my system now and that's why I go out so much...Advice?
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You dont need advice u said it yourself u r single and 22!!! Write this 8 years later then ask for advice
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ReplyDeletehonestly os-ok all i get is a flockkaaa when i ask for you input lol
ReplyDeleteI see this problem arising again and again in my life. You question if what you are doing is going to help or impede on reaching your primary goal or if you are wasting your time partying when you should be doing something beneficial for your future.
ReplyDeleteAs you know I have been partying every night; there was a ten day span where I partied every night and now I'm reaching a point where I'm sick of it.
Weigh out the options and if it's too heavy then drop some of the dead weight! We are all headed down a path and I don't believe something like having a night life is going to steer you from that path unless you let it. As for dollars wasted, who cares! money will always come and go! you mine as well have fun with it!
In the words of a football coach
"when high school is all said and done you wont remember the nights where you got wasted TRYING to impress a girl, what you'll remember most is the times you spent on the football field working hard and having fun and at the end of the day those drinks and wasted dollars disappear in time but memories will survive and push you to thrive"
-DailyRam
@4eva: If you dont wanna be 30 or 40 in the bar still...u gonna needa wife or sometype of relationship by then. I think in your situation-u gotta figure out if u want a girl or want these 'bad drunk girls.' Of course, you would want both, but i think there lies an underlying conflict with that approach. When ur 30 or 40, unless your charlie sheen, do you really see yourself trying to mack it to drunk college girls at a bar? idk..to me thats not pimpn ..pimpn. get a good girl prior to that age and ull be straight in my opinion. and if one night u feelin scumbaggy then so be it--but it shudnt happen every week thurs-sat (unless ur chalrie sheen of course)
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